Borderline Diagnosis is Patriarchy in Disguise

I read the most astounding article on Borderline Personality Disorder and patriarchy yesterday. Forward this article to as many people as possible, as it may save a life. That is all I will say. Here is the message I gave the author when I downloaded it: Dear James, what sparked my interest was… The […]

Florida Woman Jailed for Boyfriend’s Abuse

A Florida woman, Scarlett Ruiz, was jailed when she “failed to report” the fact that her boyfriend punched her daughter in the stomach. But are we getting the whole story here? There are multiple reasons she may have failed to report: 1. The boyfriend threatened her that if she reported he’d harm her. 2. The boyfriend […]

On “Nice Blokes” and Why the Happy Person Isn’t Always the Nice Person

I’ve heard about how certain men can’t be rapists, or certain politicians can’t be backstabbers, or certain workplace members can’t be jerks or wife-beaters because they’re “such nice blokes.” Anyone, when in public, can be a rather nice bloke, for five, ten, even twenty minutes, or a few hours. But what about in private? “Nice […]

When a Man Accuses You Of Nagging…

When A Man Says You Nag: We’ve all heard the bullshit- men ignore because women nag. Men “don’t know” how to have a conversation and women should pity them and leave them alone. Women want a “talking” relationship in which they change the man into a conversation obsessed woman and don’t allow him to be […]